there is a beggar who gets one Euro a day from a kind man for a long time. From a certain day on he only gets fifty cent. So one day the beggar asks the man: “Earlier you always gave me a Euro a day and now you only give me half of it!”
The man answered: “Sorry about that, but my son goes to university now and so I need more money.” – And the beggar mumbles to himself: “Unbelievable when I think about it. He lets his son study on my expense.”
One and the same thing can be judged very differently! Depending on the point of view you get a completely different sight. Who is right?
Especially in difficulties with one another it is important to ask oneself the question: “Who is right? “or “Why do I think I am right?”. A valuable clue we often get in the divine services is the question: “How would Jesus react or behave in this situation?” I guarantee by approaching the matter like this you will always get the right answer! Please try!